Mini Pause #54: 10 Ways to Put Your Health First

I'm switching things up this week to bring you my best resources to help you navigate the year ahead (and well beyond). For those of you new to the Bettyverse, welcome! I'm delighted you're here. And for my longtime followers, thank you for your continued support.

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New Coaching Program: I'm back to LIVE teaching this year with the debut of an 8-week program designed exclusively for women in perimenopause and menopause. With my focus and formal education in nutrition, exercise physiology, and biomechanics, I'm tailoring the program to suit women within three distinct pillars: Younger targets mitochondrial health and biological aging; Energized targets metabolic health; and Stronger targets female-specific biomechanics and weight-lifting. We'll discuss hormones, nutrition, movement, strength, and mindset. You'll also learn real-life strategies for increasing energy, reducing brain fog, and managing stress.

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HEALTH TOOLKIT

Body, Mind & Life: I get asked all the time about the supplements I take, the skincare I use, the tech that helps me train and recover, and overall ways to improve resilience and feel great at this stage of life. I've curated my favorites in an online toolkit for you. These are products I actually use that have helped me build supportive routines. I've partnered with amazing brands to get you discounts on every item. Take a look!

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What I Recommend

How Red Light Can Ease Perimenopause & Menopause Symptoms

Perimenopause and menopause can come with some unwelcome changes to how you look and feel. From sleepless nights to thinning hair, dry skin, and even changes in bone health, you could start to feel like your body is no longer your own. But what if an effortless, non-invasive treatment could help you start feeling like yourself again?

Enter red light therapy. Backed by research, this drug-free, largely hands-off practice has shown promise in improving some of the most unnerving symptoms of hormone changes, potentially improving sleep, reducing inflammation, supporting hair growth, promoting bone health, and even rejuvenating skin.

I take you through the reasons I recommend red light to my Bettys in this article.

Mini Pause #53: Fat Loss Basics-Tucking Into Calories & Hunger

Fat Loss Basics: Tucking Into Calories & Hunger

TL;DR (Too Long; Didn't Read)

Fat loss is relatively easy to figure out, and somewhat harder to execute.

In this issue, you’ll figure out your maintenance calories and how much to reduce your calories by in order to target adipose tissue.

And if you don’t want to do it alone, I can help. (Read to the end to see how!)

WHY

The one question I get most often, especially when it pertains to strength, is “How do I do this when my primary goal is to lose fat? I’m totally game for building muscle, but is there a way to do both at the same time?”

The other version of this I get is: “Should I lose the fat I want first and then embark on a muscle-building program?”

There persists a fear around body fat, even for a short period of time, and I hope that these Mini Pause newsletters (that you’re sharing with your friends, right?) help to educate you and shine a light on the beliefs (however correct or incorrect they may be) are driving your behaviors.

I’m a BIG fan of efficiency and momentum. Meaning, that if I’m going to dedicate resources like my attention to something, I want it to work.

Not sort-of work.

Work.

For most of us, we can think about approaching fat loss and muscle building in phases. You can, technically, build muscle in a fat-loss phase but it is orders of magnitude more difficult to do than to approach each goal separately.

If I told you to learn French and Italian at the same time–could you do it? Sure. But over time, you are going to mix up the languages. One language becomes more dominant than the other, making the weaker language more difficult to access.

The same is true for body goals. You can do them at the same time, but it will be slower.

Let’s focus on fat loss. Given that it is still January, I suspect many of you are at least slightly more interested in fat loss right now.

WHAT

So first, let’s state the obvious. Whenever we are talking about weight loss, what we really want to zoom in on is fat loss.

I’m assuming you are not trying to reduce density in your bones, weight or volume of your brain, or your muscles–all, of course, have weight to them.

It is the adipose tissue you want to get under control. Especially the adipose tissue that begins to migrate to your midsection in your 40s.

The first thing to do when embarking on a fat loss journey? Get a sense of what kind of caloric intake you currently have and ask yourself if it’s having a net zero effect on your weight.

You have to determine how many maintenance calories are required to either gain or lose weight.

There are a couple of ways to do this. The first method (1) is longer and more accurate; the second method (2) is faster and less accurate.

  • Keep a food journal for one to two weeks. Literally track every lick, taste, and bite. Include the weekends and the stress eating. Everything. Because if you can see after a week or two that nothing happens to your weight, then you can accurately estimate your maintenance calories.
  • Use an online calculator to estimate how many calories you burn right now, with your current level of activity.

HOW

After you figure out your maintenance calories, you can figure out how to reduce your calories so that you’re coming in with a net calorie deficit. That’s when you start tapping into stored fat as your energy fuel.

This is what fat loss entails. Weeks of a caloric deficit under your maintenance calories.

It’s boring. Sorry, not sorry.

You can start with a certain percentage below your maintenance calories. I honestly like to be gentle here, but research indicates that as long as you’re getting enough protein, you can safely decrease your calories to 25% less than your maintenance calories. I recommend something a little less than 25%, and if needed, you can ramp up.

I’m always a fan of taking a long-term view of fat loss, muscle gain, and managing things like hunger.

And you’re going to be hungry when you’re in a fat loss phase. Expect it.

What percent of a caloric decrease you can tolerate and maintain comes down to a few key things:

Is your nutrition already dialed in?

  • Are you already lifting weights and eating sufficient protein?
  • What’s your current body composition?
  • What’s your current fitness level?
  • Have you engaged in a fat loss phase previously? How successful was it?

NOW

If you have a fat loss goal this year, start here:

  • Figure out your maintenance calories
  • Decide by how much you are going to reduce your caloric intake
  • Expect hunger with slight to moderate discomfort

If you don’t want to do this alone, I’m starting a brand new program on Jan. 14 that addresses this very issue (along with muscle-building).

You’re invited to participate in the first class for FREE.

In this 8-week program, you’ll learn you to figure out your calories, what your caloric deficit should be for you, as well as how to begin to build muscle and implement healthy habits not only for this year but also for life.

This is my first coaching cohort in over two years (!) and I’m so excited to get going again!

➡️ If you’d like to join me and a group of like-minded women, reply YES to support@drstephanieestima.com, and you’ll get all the details!

Say YES! to Feeling Younger, Energized & Stronger

YES is my new eight-week program designed to help you lose fat, gain muscle, and feel your most vibrant. We’ll focus on mitochondrial health, metabolic health, nutrition, biomechanics, and strength training specifically for women.

I'll be leading you through the program during weekly LIVE coaching calls, as well as tools and a community space for you to interact with other women.

To participate, reply to support@drstephanieestima.com with the word YES in the subject line to join the first session for FREE, and I’ll send you all the details.

YES starts with the FREE first session on Tuesday, Jan. 14 at 7 p.m. ET

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What I Recommend

Increase Resilience, Improve Cellular Health & Manage Hormonal Changes

TRY COLD PLUNGING

I've been talking to you about the benefits of cold water immersion therapy for well over a year now. It took me a while to take the plunge (pun intended!), but when I did, I went all in…albeit one extremity at a time! And I don't want you to miss out on the benefits like improved sleep, balanced energy and mood, sharper focus, and reduced stress.

  • My first podcast guest of 2025 was Marie Bodine, a cold performance and mindset who's also a level 2 certified Wim Hof Method instructor and a Spartan athlete. Take a listen to BETTER! episode #398 for a cold water “how-to” guide.
  • Read about how cold water immersion helps ease perimenopause and menopause symptoms in this article.
  • Find out what I recommend for women when it comes to cold plunging: time, temperature, warming up afterward, and more in this newsletter.

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This means you'll have more energy, better workouts, and faster recovery, and you'll be preserving your health, mobility, and strength as you age.

Mitopure® also empowers your cells to replenish your skin from the inside out, which makes their skincare line so effective I can't do without The Serum morning and night.

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BALANCE YOUR HORMONES

Hear from more than 20 women’s health experts–including me!–to get science-backed solutions, practical tools, and daily practices to manage your menopausal journey.

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Mini Pause #22: Why Up Your Calories? More Muscle Growth & Less Fat Gain

TL;DR (too long, didn't read)

Eat more calories to build muscle. At any weight. At any size. At any fitness level.

WHY

I’ve been writing over the last few weeks (Mini Pause #21 & Mini Pause #20) about why women need to stop punishing ourselves with overly aggressive caloric restriction. Bottom line: you need to eat more food to provide the building blocks to assemble new muscles.

But… just how much? And what kind? Are we talking a tub of Häagen-Dazs or is it extra steaks? How many calories above maintenance are we talking about here

WHAT

If muscle hypertrophy is the goal, you need to provide the muscle (and the bones, tendons, and ligaments that support it) extra calories to assimilate and build said muscle.

The best evidence [*] suggests that if you are a beginner, you can profit off the newbie gainz to utilize more food for muscle accumulation. If you have been training for less than a year consistently, progressing slowly in your muscle growth journey, it seems like a caloric surplus of 20-40%of your maintenance calories is ideal. This works out to somewhere between 500-1000 extra calories daily.

Remember, as a new lifter, your rate of muscle turnover is much higher than a seasoned lifter, and as such, will require more calories (hurray!)

If you are an experienced lifter, where your progress and strength gains are near maxed out, you still require a caloric surplus, but it’s much lower. Something around 10-20% caloric surplus, or somewhere between 250-500 extra calories daily.

When you are close to your natural potential in muscle size, unfortunately, your fat gain potential is higher, and so fewer calories are recommended here.

HOW

For the record–I totally get how shocking these numbers might be. Especially if you're someone who has been under-fueling and on some sort of “diet” for weight loss for a long time. Couple this with the cultural norms of women needing to be small, skinny, petite, and delicate, and it is a mind f*ckery at its finest.

I write about periodization of, well, your period, in The Betty Body where we increase calories every month in week 4 of your cycle by about 10-15%. I get 40% caloric surplus can feel like just too much too soon, so let’s start off nice and easy shall we?

There are so many benefits to nourishing your body in the way it requires and expects of you. You can gradually increase your metabolic rate, and your NEAT output (Non-Exercise Activity Thermogenesis), and give your organs, bones, and muscles the energy they need to operate properly.

Are you with me?

NOW

  • Pick up a copy of The Betty Body.
  • Start tracking your food intake to determine what you’re currently eating.
  • You can keep these calories consistent in the follicular phase of your menstrual cycle.
  • In your luteal phase, you’re going to pinky promise me you’re going to TRY and increase your calories a little bit. Deal?
  • If you are menopausal, congratulations. You don't have to worry about a cycle any more so you can just jump right into a caloric surplus of 10-15% today.

Question of the Week

Q: Should we be sore after a workout?

This question came in through my recent Ask Me Anything on IG. And there's A LOT of debate around this. Here is where I stand on it:

Whenever you change up your routine (which you should be doing regularly) because it is a novel stimulus, having some soreness is normal for the first or second time you do it.

The absence of soreness doesn’t mean you didn’t work hard enough.

That being said, if you are never sore (even from a workout you are familiar with) I find this problematic. Workouts should be a sufficient stimulus that induce soreness from time to time.

For me, I am gunning for soreness in weeks two and three of my cycle. I just have the most energy, motor coordination, mental stamina, and hormonal landscape to go for it. So I’ll increase volume, weights, or both during this time.

So… I guess what I’m saying is… it depends. You know yourself best, and you know when you’re ready for a stellar workout. When you feel well-rested, mentally sharp, and prepared to work–see what you're made of. Intermittent soreness is a good thing.

YOUR TURN!

I’ll be answering your questions every week right here in the Mini Pause! Let me know what’s on your mind. I’ll be checking for both questions and feedback at support@drstephanieestima.com.

WHAT I RECOMMEND: A Health Toolkit

I get a lot of questions from my Bettys about what they can do, take, or try to look, feel, and perform better in their lives. That’s why I compiled and launched a Health Toolkit for you this year.

I’ve curated numerous resources on my new website for my Bettys who are still cycling, experiencing symptoms of perimenopause, or going through the menopause transition. You’ll find solutions for sleep, skin, longevity, protein, energy, red light therapy, cooling hot flashes and more! Everything I recommend, I use myself. That’s my rule.

I invite you to get curious about the ways you can uplevel your health. Check out the Health Toolkit here.

And to answer the Betty question that came in regarding why I don’t use a sauna blanket anymore–I still do! (And now I interchange it with time in my Sunlighten sauna.) I love the sauna blanket for recovery after especially heavy lifting days. My preference is the BON CHARGE model. Use code DRSTEPHANIE for an exclusive discount on either sauna style you prefer.