Mini Pause #124 | Muscle grows in response to one thing.

Picture this. You’re scrolling and you stop on a reel. The woman is beautiful. Her studio is white and airy. She’s holding weights that are, generously, the size of a large avocado. She’s doing tiny, controlled pulses for her biceps and shoulders. The caption says something about “sculpting long, lean muscle” and “toning without bulking.” […]

Mini Pause #123 | The 🔑 to shorter training sessions + more strength

If I asked you to choose one movement in the gym for the rest of your life… what would you choose? Personally, I’m going with the deadlift because this puppy is the GOAT of compound movements. Literally every joint, and the muscles that cross them, in the lower body are working, and you get a […]

Mini Pause #122 | Weight Loss vs Fat Loss: What It Costs to Lose

If you’re still letting a $25 bathroom appliance measure your health, pull up a chair, Betty. We need to talk. I’m taking it upon myself to make sure you never get tricked into another 6-week shred/72-hour fast/predatory herbal cleanse ever again. The bullshit stops here. Body composition is the goal. The ratio of muscle to […]

Mini Pause #121 | I am the mother I needed

I was eight years old. I had just walked home from school – the kind of walk where you’re staring at the ground because your eyes are doing that thing where they keep filling up, and you keep blinking them dry. I’d been bullied. The kind that gets under your skin and stays there. I […]

Mini Pause #120 | The Central Anchor for the Body You Want

Last week, I got a reply from a Betty in Melbourne about last week’s Mini Pause, which stopped me mid-sipping my cappuccino. (P.S. If you’re new here… “Betty” is my catch-all for the fierce woman in this community. You’re a Betty. I’m a Betty. We’re all Bettys.) She wrote: “I read every word. I cried. […]